Looks like we have a lot of the same fears, especially getting old - I am turning 30 next month!
I can definitely relate to a lot of your fears!! The one I am a little confused about is Milk, cream and butter? :)
I think I agree with all those things, except milk ;) especially spiders!! *shudder*
Men who wink? Ahahaha! I hate spiders. Ew.
I definitely share a few of those, but definitely not scared of driving - I love to drive!